Saturday, February 20, 2010

Double dating...at 59?

What you are calling cheating, a high schooler might call double dating, or dating two women at the same time. He *told* you he wanted a girlfriend, not a shared life. And you gave him permission. By agreeing to see him, by accepting his invitations, you gave your permission for him to remain uncommitted and free to see others. You might have changed your mind since he told you, but he hasn't been acting as if you had changed your permission.

Wow - Ouch!! Well, if that doesn't describe what my past 3 years have been with AC! Thanks Brad.

Why is this so hard for me to come up with in the first place? Why don't i see it, accept it and STOP IT??? before wasting so many years on something that's never going to change??

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